It must have been sometime in the 1960s. I don't remember exactly what year. I just remember that it was summer, it was Sunday morning, and my dad was scheduled to preach in Pittsburgh.
We lived in Greenville, Pennsylvania, and Pittsburgh was a smaller congregation than ours. My dad was a minister in the New Apostolic Church, and people seemed to love him everywhere he went.
I asked if I could go with him. He said yes.
I'd made the trip with him before, and I knew part of the routine.
We would leave early Sunday morning and stop at a diner in Pittsburgh for breakfast before going to church.
This was before the interstate highway system through western Pennsylvania was finished. We'd drive about twenty miles from home before getting onto I-80, then pick up I-79 heading toward Pittsburgh. Eventually the interstate simply ended on the north side of the city, near the turnpike.
You knew you were getting close to Pittsburgh before you actually got there. You could smell it. And then you could see the smog. That was Pittsburgh in those days.
The church wasn't some grand building with stained-glass windows and a steeple. It was a rented storefront that served the small congregation there.
But before church came breakfast. The diner was the kind that seemed to be everywhere back then. Dad and I would sit at the counter. He'd order a soft-boiled egg, toast and coffee. I'd get one of those little single-serving boxes of cereal. I knew the routine.
Except that Sunday, we never made it inside. We had parked and were walking across the parking lot toward the diner when a man approached my dad. “Hey, mister, can you spare a dime?”
Dad reached into his pocket. He didn't give him a dime. He pulled out a couple of dollar bills and handed them to the man. Then Dad turned around and started walking back toward the car. I followed him. We got in.
I couldn't understand what was happening.
“Why are we leaving?”
Dad told me that the man needed our breakfast money more than we did.
Now, I was a little boy. And apparently my face betrayed the obvious problem with my father's generosity.
If we had just given away our breakfast money, what exactly were we going to eat?
Before I could ask, Dad said: “The Lord will provide.”
And off we went to church.
We arrived just as Sunday School was ending. One of the teachers was a German woman everyone called Oma D. That morning, one of her students was celebrating a birthday. And Oma D. had brought apple kuchen for everyone. Including us.
I don't remember what my dad preached about that Sunday.
I don't remember the hymns we sang.
I don't remember the name of the man in the parking lot. I don't know where he went after my father handed him those couple of dollars.
But more than half a century later, I remember the breakfast we didn't eat.
And I remember the apple kuchen we did.
Yesterday morning, I was sitting in another diner, this time with my wife. On the wall beside us was an artist's drawing of a 1958 Chevy Impala.
My dad had one when I was a boy. One glance at that drawing opened a door I hadn't walked through in years.
Suddenly I was remembering that enormous front bench seat, the dashboard, and what it felt like to be a little boy riding beside my father.
I've been going through old family photographs ever since. I started out looking for a car. Instead, I kept finding Dad.
And perhaps that is why this old Sunday morning in Pittsburgh came back to me.
This weekend's Gospel tells us that the Kingdom of Heaven is like treasure buried in a field. A man discovers it and realizes that what he has found is worth more than everything else he owns.
I've spent the last couple of days thinking about how much treasure can be buried in an ordinary life.
When I was that little boy riding to Pittsburgh, I didn't know I was making a memory.
I was just going somewhere with Dad.
I didn't know that watching him hand our breakfast money to a stranger would stay with me for the rest of my life.
I certainly didn't know that someday I would become a deacon and find myself preaching about treasures hidden in fields.
And I don't think Dad was trying to teach me a lesson that morning.
That's what makes the memory precious. He simply saw someone who needed what he had, reached into his pocket, and gave it to him. Then he trusted God with what came next.
The apple kuchen makes a wonderful ending to the story. And I can still smile when I think about the timing of it.
But the older I get, the more I realize that the kuchen wasn't the treasure.
The treasure was sitting beside me in that car.
My father couldn't have known what would be waiting for us when we got to church. He didn't give that man our breakfast money because he expected God to replace it. He gave it because, at that moment, he believed it was the right thing to do.
And then he trusted God with what came next.
More than fifty years later, I think that's what following God so often looks like.
We don't get to see the whole road.
We don't always know where it leads.
Sometimes we simply recognize what is true, what is good, what Christ is asking of us in that moment - and we follow.
I started looking through old photographs this weekend because I wanted to find a picture of a 1958 Chevy Impala.
Instead, I found myself remembering a Sunday morning in Pittsburgh, a hungry stranger, a couple of dollar bills, a breakfast we never ate, and a piece of apple kuchen I can still almost taste.
I was just a little boy going for a ride with his dad.
I didn't know I was watching someone follow the Lord wherever He led.
I just knew Dad said we'd be all right.
“The Lord will provide.”
And He did.
Following Truth Wherever He Leads
